In Search of my Rib..

Going by the scriptures God created Eve from Adam’s Rib…

So today, I am writing about how I found my Missing Rib, my Eve. It is true that God has great plans for everyone same way he has planned the right partners for us. But for me, I had to do discern what my calling was.

Having first believed that a priest calling was mine, I worked on towards becoming a priest. I started praying to make my calling stronger. It was after the School of Mission that my calling became stronger and everyone around me encouraged me. They kindly said that I would become good Priest and so I thought that this was my calling.

My parents and my extended family weren't happy with my decision. It was those bad days I had to face lot of anxiety, pressure and what not. I was slow in taking my decision and God honored my prayers. Two years after the School of Mission I decided to go for a discernment retreat. Even before my retreat started, I was sure that my vocation is to priesthood. You will not believe this but my mom was fasting and praying that I should not become a priest. Haha. To my surprise, by the end of the retreat I discerned marriage. I was shocked!!! I was wondering what my friends will think considering all this time I have been saying I am going to become a priest. To tell you the truth, I couldn't personally accept the outcome of the discernment. Later, Jesus made me to understand why he chose me for marriage.

I am thanking God for making me to go through the process of discernment so now I am sure that whatever I am doing is according to the will of God. Here is the part where things became bit more complicated for me... Where is this Girl whom I am going to marry and spend my whole life with? So I start the hunt for my rib that would fit me exactly. Now there were some things I wanted to see in my future partner. I wanted her to be spiritual, seeking God’s Love, and living in his merciful providence and Definitely Beautiful in my eyes. It didn’t take much time I found three women fulfilling my prerequisites. I call it plan A, plan B, plan C. From Plan A to C, all were failures. I was heartbroken. There were no signs of marriage in my friend’s circle, as most of the girls preferred me as a friend than a partner. Anxiety started growing with most of my friends getting married. I started to pray for my partner earnestly to Jesus I asked him to show me the right person I made a complete surrender of my life.

A miracle happened. One of my brother’s in Christ suggested a girl whom he knew (Ann Daisy). When I came to know who it was I was shocked. I said no it won’t work out because Ann and I had a bad run-in some years ago. My friend laughed and said Ann had also said the same thing but even then she is ready to talk. We first spoke to each other on November 26^th 2013.Within three days of talking, sharing and praying we understood in our Spirits that it is because of God will we have been united.

We spoke to our parents and today (July 2, 2014) Ann and I going to be united as one through the sacrament of matrimony. I wanted to post this blog on my big day  to show how Lord was so faithful to answer my prayers and blessed with a wonderful partner in my life MY RIB. My ANN.

A Bike ride with Jesus

A Bike ride with Jesus.

Seeing the Headline you might think that I am a big time biker but that isn’t the truth. I love riding bikes but never got a chance to go for a long ride.

Recently my team at office decided go for a short drive after work to a café coffee day which is located some 55 kms away from our office.  I was excited about the ride. I fueled up my bike so that it doesn’t stop anywhere, checked my tyre pressure for a smooth ride, had my jacket and helmet ready … with lot of enthusiasm I was geared up my ride. It was a neat highway for a good ride.

Usually bike rides are not that easy. You have to be wide awake and watching. You can come across lot of hindrances, like a speed breaker or a man hole or even potholes on bad roads. If you aren’t careful, you may even lose your life. But this ride on the highway was different. During the ride I realized life is something like a bike ride. You will go through lot of struggles but the point is to hold on to Christ to have a safe ride.

I shall explain you out of personal experience how God really leads you to a better place in your life journey. When you are out for a bike you cannot always expect that road should be smooth without any hindrance. The worst roads are where you may have to slow down ride properly so that you don’t fall off your bike.

I am here to share how my life journey, I came out of college with 7 arrears not knowing what my future is going to be. At that time God blessed me with a call center job. I thanked him for the blessing but a few years of night shifts and it ruins your health.  You miss out on many occasions. You are separated from normal world. You sleep when the world works and you work when the rest of the world sleeps. After working for 3.5 years, I needed a break. It is a good to take breaks even during your bike ride to rejuvenate. You will take breaks because you are tired or sleepy or because you feel you are done.

During the ‘break’, I was preparing for MBA and applied in different B-Schools. I didn’t get through any one of them. I was disappointed and asked the Lord for direction. After few months, he leads me to three months School of Mission in Bangalore. I happily quit my job and did my School of Mission, came back home after 3 months looking for job. This time, I was sure that I will take only a day shift job and not a call center work. I was in job search for more than 3 months but nothing clicked. During this time, I get a call from an Investment firm. I just went just for the sake of attending an interview. I didn’t want my parents to worry about me.

The moment I entered that office I felt peace in my heart as if I had already got the job. I cleared my interview and got placed in Bangalore. The firm was an amazing place to work but again it’s was night shift job. I was praying- Lord, I need a day shift. We have a process in most of the companies called IJP (Internal Job Posting) which is; once I complete 18 months with this company I can start look for a different role within the company to grow and move up  in my career. I completed my 18 months in September last year and come October, I started applying for different position which I felt would work for me. Nothing happened. I started to feel anxious again. How long am I going to be stuck in this night shift! I remember it was 7^th February 2013 afternoon. I was in my room, frustrated, irritated, lost my hope. I was literally shouting at Jesus asking what has he destined for my life… then I finally said- Lord, I surrender. A miracle happened that same day. I logged into my system and I get an email from a unknown employee saying that there is some problem with my profile in IJP site. Whatever I had applied to all those days was not visible to the HR. He deleted my profile on the system and I had to recreate. The next day, I applied for a position software engg. Then few days later, I was called for a face to face interview. They were looking for a person who knew coding and scripting and I have no experience in that field and no idea how to code. I thought that I was not getting this role but I thanked Jesus that he took me till the interview stage.  After few hours, the interviewer called me saying that I was technically a nobody since I didn’t know coding but he liked my attitude and will give positive feedback to the manager. After a little while, I get a call from the manager telling me that he had sent an email to the HR accepting me and said that after an half hour I would get a call from the HR. After a few minutes I get a confirmation email from my HR saying that I am selected for the new role software Engineer, I was in awe! Totally surprised and speechless at what God did for me. Within a weeks’ time, he made me attend an interview and helps me get through it too… Praise God!.. That’s how God works. He works in unimaginable ways. He has his own time for everything. The new role functions in the day shift. Man! I was waiting for this for the past 5 years. I can’t imagine how I got a role without any experience of a software engineer. He makes all things beautiful in his time.

Our life is like the bike ride, when you get exhausted on the way you look for a Coffee Day and relax for a while, and maybe you feel this is what you were looking for all the way. But we, as Christians have to continue the ride trusting in Jesus. Our whole life is a something-like-a bike ride with Jesus. You will face a lot of speed breakers, bad roads and what-not but if you are passionate about the ride; whatever barriers may come in the way, Jesus will ride with us to reach the eternity.

The Secret Ingredient

I must confess that I am slow writer  :-) . And you know what!!!  I recently found out the secret ingredient (stealing it from my fav movie kungfu panda) to live happy life. 

I guess few weeks ago, probably last month, I happened to meet my parish priest; a wise old man in his 70’s. we were talking about the climate of Bangalore and I was telling about the drastic changes happening to the weather. He then mentioned that he is to travel to his hometown, Kerala for HIS Dad’s Death anniversary. His dad had died at the age of 105. Great, right! When he had turned 103, the whole family, and his friends celebrated his birthday with a beautiful mass and big fat lunch spread. Everyone on that day had just one question in their mind. What was his secret of living so long? He simply answered with a smile, that he never worried for anything in his life. He had great faith in Jesus and that in any situation Jesus would there for his support. Even the moment when he had difficult situations he never worried. He happily accepted those difficult moments and he was able to endure it with the power of Christ. Truly a beautiful testimony. It did make an impact on me.

Throughout the day I was thinking about this and looking at how I react when I go through trials, when I feel low, when I am humiliated. First question which comes to my mind then is why did God allowed this, why am I going through struggles. One thing which I understood from the life of the priest’s father is that he accepted Jesus and he surrendered his life to Jesus. Even Jesus’s life wasn't full of fun and joy but he went through rejection, humiliation, accusation, whatnot. We all know how he died. When I say I have accepted Jesus, I wondered at how I reacted through my times of pain, humiliation, and suffering? Kept questioning him on why did he allowed this and where did he go without helping me out. Christianity itself is a calling for a sacrifice, dying to self, loving unconditionally. Jesus says that want to follow me, take up your cross and follow. We say, ‘Yes! Yes! Lord’ and the moment we get a cross we start grumbling,  because all we want is blessings from Jesus but we run away from cross. It’s like you want the treasure but you will not dig the ground to take the treasure out.

In my previous blog- I am true vine, I have mentioned that suffering is part of Christian life though technically its pruning. You have to be pruned to give more fruit. I am reminded some of favorite passages Jeremiah 17: 7-8 “But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.”

Very strong and clear, we should be like a tree rooted in Jesus. True faith is that we bear fruit in any season. Even in the season of suffering and pain. Another scripture which I remember very often is Sirach 39 : 17-18,33-34 “ For now, we must not question what God has done, but he has set a time to explain everything. All the works of the Lord are good, and he will supply every need in its time. No one can say, “This is not as good as that.” for everything proves good in its appointed time.

Commanding words; if God allows something bad, it is for our good. We can’t question it or compare it. I left college with 7 arrears. I was scared and worried. Questions like will I complete my degree or not would cloud my mind. After trying hard for 2 years to clear them after with a lot of questioning- why God didn't help me; I had no other go other than to surrender my life to Jesus. I told him- Lord, this time am not going rely on my intellect or books but you. I prepared well and then a miracle happened. I passed all my papers.

That is when I understood the true surrender in Christ. Later I met lot of my friends and brothers who were going through similar situations; and I understood why Jesus allowed this struggle in my life. If I hadn't gone through the struggles I would not have understood my brother’s pain or situation. I guess I am not leading the topic elsewhere.

Finally, to live a happy life, you must hold on to Jesus even at the time of trials and humiliation. Our calling as Christians is to follow Christ and not the worries. If something is troubling you, surrender to Jesus and stay calm. You will see the miracle happening. This is called staying cool with Jesus (our best friend). 

kyaaaaaaah... kyaaaaah .... Master Jesus.

Confession : Soul Washer

Confession, as most Christians knows, it’s one of the 7 sacraments.

It is the only other sacrament which we receive through-out our life. This shows the importance of the sacrament and its need for every Christian to walk with Christ. But do we really make use of this divine healing service. How many of us go for confession just for the sake of doing it? Do we really understand the true healing presence of the Lord during confession?

Let me start with myself first. The priest says that we have to prepare ourselves for Christmas or Easter and I have known myself to rush to church at the last minute to vomit whatever comes to mind... Do you really think I felt bad about my sins? It was just another ritual for me.

Personally, I thank God for making me to understand and appreciate the grace I receive during confession. I want to write what confession does to us and how important it is. Confession it’s not just about confessing your sins, it is also a healing sacrament. During confession, your soul is washed with the power of the Holy Spirit and made whiter than snow. I am comparing it with snow because I will say it is the purest form of white. I am inspired to explain what happens during confession in lay man terms. Let’s compare our soul with a pure white shirt. I wear this nice white shirt while going out and expose it to the dust, sun and sweat. Its gets dirty, of course. But what if I am to wear the same dirty shirt the next day and the day after for long time. It will start to stink, may be the white shirt will no longer look like a white one. I will start to reek because of the filthy shirt. The shirt desperately needs a wash. I will then have it washed thoroughly making sure it gets back its former color- white. This is what happens during confession.

I have never witnessed my own baptism but I have seen baptisms were the baby is nicely dressed in a white dress, and the priest blesses the baby and wipes his head with a white cloth symbolizing that his original sin is washed away. Now, as one grows older, the soul gets exposed to all kinds of worldly things, dirtying it. Its needs a regular wash to be made whiter than snow and the washing happens during the sacrament of confession.  So let’s be regular in using this divine opportunity to wash our souls, to wash it whiter than snow and to continue seeking the Kingdom of God. Amen…

Miracle-Faith Boosters

Mark 4:26-27, 28-29 – Faith is like a seed; plant it in your heart. God gives the harvest at the appointed time.

I call myself faithful but I am not sure how strong my faith is.

I was in Trichy  two weeks ago, for my cousins wedding. I happened to pick my granny from the railway station. On the way back home, the cab driver drove us into a hospital called the ‘infant Jesus hospital’ in Trichy. I had no clue why we were there. When I asked my brother, he told that on  8^th Dec 2011 many ppl witnessed Mother Mary’s statue’s eyes flicker and thousands flooded to this place. The moment he told me this, I asked him if it was true. Whether it was reported to Rome? Did they approve it? Having so many questions cross my mind walked towards the grotto, knelt before the grotto and started praying, “I am not doubting your holiness or your son’s power but pls forgive me if my mind is not accepting the truth.” I sat for some time at the grotto and prayed rosary. I was looking into the face of mother Mary and wondered if I am worthy to witness any miracles.

On the way back home I was thinking, am I really rooted in faith? Why I couldn’t trust a miracle? Is it my intellect which is stopping me from believing? What is faith? Am I a fool to just trust Jesus without any doubts? When Jesus rose from the dead, every disciple believed it but Thomas, who wanted to touch and feel his wounds. We call him Doubting Thomas. He proved to the world that that Jesus had truly risen in flesh and blood. It was allowed by Jesus. It’s the touch of Christ.

Miracles and apparitions increase your faith. They help you feel his touch. In my life, I personally started to seek Jesus when I felt his divine touch healing me. Thomas had faith, but Jesus wanted to make it an everlasting faith by allowing him to touch his wounds, Miracles are faith builders. It builds you more deeply in faith. The Catholic Church is very cautious about each and every act in the Christian community. It doesn’t allow for any confusion in the Church. As the above scripture says, let’s allow faith to grow in our heart. Stop questioning or doubting God and trust him wholeheartedly. Science can answer many of your questions, but when it comes to God, science has no answer. It’s speechless…

I am the True Vine

I am the vine and you are the branches, a divine calling to bear fruit for Christ and to serve his kingdom, John 15:16. He says “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit--fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.” How blessed are we to be called the Chosen Ones!

Jesus calls everyone to abide in his love and bear fruit. Now the question we are asking is; are we really clinging to Jesus to bear fruit for him. If you read the whole chapter, Jesus sends a friend request to everyone (like Jesus was the one who started social networking).  He invites everyone to be his friend, to start a new relationship, a new covenant. He made a new law, a new commandment. It is a simplified version of the Ten Commandments. John 15 : 12-13, “this is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you, no one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”

He calls us friends! He freed us from slavery by sacrificing himself on the cross. The only cost for us to avail his sacrifice is to remain in his love and to follow his commandments. To follow this one commandment means that you will fulfill all the other nine commandments. Simple as that! Loving others as Jesus loved me is the greatest challenge I have in my life. Do I really die to myself when someone accuses me and I retaliate? Am I really abiding in his love? Do I reflect his love to my fellow brothers and sisters? Think about it!

This term, vine is used in most part of the Old Testament. Vine represents the People of God or People of Israel. Jesus says “I am the true Vine”. He reveals that he is the new Israel. He is the Light and He is the True Vine. Ah! I should not forget about the pruning part. That’s more important here. Abba father is the Gardener and his work is to prune us to bear the best fruit. Now this pruning can be in different forms. It is physical, mental and financial. The more your pruned the more you will bear fruit. Most of time we, religious say to ourselves I go for everyday mass, I am living a good sacramental life, but when we face any difficulty in life we start to question God- why am I going through this? 

I remember putting this question to my spiritual friends. Does God test our faith? Most of them said- no, he doesn’t. I wasn’t convinced but term 'test' itself is incorrect. It is pruning. If you’re abiding in Christ love, you will be pruned to bear fruit. Sometimes pruning is painful, but it is fruitful. I remember this scripture, Matt 16:24, “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me”. Therefore, “Take up your cross and follow Me” means being willing to die in order to follow Jesus. This is called “dying to self”. It’s a call to absolute surrender. Each time Jesus commanded cross bearing, he said, “for whoever wants to save his life, will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it. What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self?” (Luke 9:24-25).

Although the call is tough, the reward is priceless. Let us abide his love and bear much fruit for his Glory. And don’t forget to the accept the friendship request from Jesus (your true friend (vine))

Why not a Baby Girl ??

              Hey guys! I have become uncle for the 2nd time. All Glory to the Lord Jesus for adding another baby to our family.  This is my sisters 2nd baby, and happiest part is that it is a Girl. The whole of yesterday (April 16^th 2012) I was in the hospital with my sister and  I could see many people waiting for their babies, with a lot of anxiety, expectation, not knowing if it’s going to be a girl or boy. I saw many chanting prayers, whether it may be either Christian, Muslim, or Hindu. They were waiting for a new creation, a new member to their family. What an miraculous creation of God  that women are blessed with the gift of motherhood. They are co-creators with God.

As I am writing this, I am  looking at innocent face of my 2nd niece. What a blessing to have babies at home. I wish I were a baby now. But I wonder how do people kill babies? How do they have a heart to kill them? I can’t imagine how mothers abort those souls. How many of us pray for stopping abortion? In addition, I was observing at the hospital yesterday that everyone was hoping for a boy. I am not sure about other countries, but in India there is huge discrimination of sex. I have  read in newspapers that a 1 day old baby was thrown into garbage just because it was a baby girl. How cruel they are? Heartless humans! Why is a girl child considered less. Women are achieving more than men now a days. Women  are working in every field of commerce and technology as men are. 

In my perspective, if a mom or a mother-in-law says they don’t want a baby girl, they are murderers. They are not worth having in this world. They don’t deserve to be called womens. They are equal to being a terrorist. This clearly shows they don’t accept their own sex. These days as fertility centres are increasing worldwide, they now have a choice to choose what kind of baby they want. Who is the creator here? God or human beings.

That is a question that everybody has to answer? The science which transforms God's creation will not last long.

One more thing. If a women gives birth to baby Girl and that child is not accepted or loved by her own parents, grandparents, siblings; just imagine the state of her soul. It longs for love, this leads the poor soul to seek love in numerous wrong ways. Jesus calls us to love everyone, not to recreate or reprogram what he has already destined for us. If we are saying it is scientific development, then let’s remember that the doors of Hell is always open for us.

This is my humble request; let’s pray to prevent abortion. Let less souls to be destroyed. L

New life from a broken tree

It’s a nice shot right…. Obviously shot by me… it was a while ago that I had taken this shot..................

Prodigal Son(s)

Prodigal son.

This was the reading this Saturday’s mass (march 10^th) …. About the prodigal son… the whole day I was contemplating on the reading… why is that we always think about the son who went away, enjoyed his life and came back with nothing… but I focused on the elder son who was always with his father , so obedient, just like a slave…. Why is that we forget this elder son… we must think about the elder son as close as the younger one. ….  You know the story well… younger son takes away his share of property, goes to the true world(manipulated as true), free from his father’s hands… wat a joy  to be free… when there is no one to question you… its actually fun… this son goes out looking for fun, love.. Etc.. It continues… he realizes that there is no more pig’s food (just for laughs) decides to get back to his father which is a hard decision to make, no other go, it needs of lot of humility, courage to face his father. This father knowing that his son will come back, waiting for him with lot of love… this eldest son, being same always under the fathers feet, just fulfilling his fathers will, gets angry when his dad opens up a party of his son’s returning… second even though goes worldly, knowing that his father loves him, comes back, but this elder son being always with his father, fail's to realise his father’s compassionate love… this whole parable is about the love of the father.. in this both  the son’s failed to understand the love of the father. We may be a prodigal son or daughter , or even a obedient son or daughter, but how much we have allowed the love of God to penetrate in our life… knowing that he loves us so much, how much do we reflect his love to others. Let’s think about this, do we have any un- forgiveness towards others?  Come on friends let dwell in the loving presence of our lord. Jesus loves you all.

The Lost Child

I will say this is a late reflection, Today morning as I was in chapel suddenly this incident comes out of my memory, Reflection is all about how important is to hold on to JESUS to Reach the FATHER as the scriptures says No One Comes To the Father, But Through Me: John 14:6.  I and my family went for a pilgrimage to Velankanni in Nagapattinam , one of the HOLY places of Mother Mary’s apparitions. We go every year to this holy place. After evening mass, we generally walk towards a place where mother Mary appeared to a lame boy, and we say rosary or contemplate on way of  the cross, this place is always crowded, in this midst of the crowd my dad noticed a small kid hardly 4 yrs old crying missing his parents, my dad asked me to carry this kid, I took him, I asked his what’s your name, he couldn’t speak also he was scared, he was holding me so tight, we took him to the security guy to keep the boy safe there as the place crowded  and its hard to find his parents. But that boy did not want get away from me, I told him see Jesus is there with you , MAMA Mary is with you, am not sure whether he understands me, tried to convince him but he is not ready let me go, we waited there for sometime hoping his parents will search for him. We asked the security personal to announce it in the mic, after sometime the parents came and took the kid. I felt happy that I was able to hand over him to his parents. As we walk towards our spiritual life its very important to Hold on tight to Jesus other wise we will be lost in the world as the lost child, as we know Jesus is only way to reach the Abba Father, we should hold him in every situation, we may be distracted with many things which is taking away from JESUS, just imagine, if that kid was taken away by someone who may misuse or abuse him. Its possible in this world we brought up as Christians get lost in worldly pleasures one day we realize that we have taken wrong path we are like a LOST child. Don’t forget Jesus is always there for our Rescue.  We belong to Jesus and Satan tries to manipulate many things in our lives offering APPLE’S in our life finally deceiving us. Lets Identify JESUS in our lives, How close we relate to him, How much time we spend with him, Do we really follow him?. JESUS LOVES YOU ALL. HOLD ON TO JESUS.

My Experience on Valentine's Day (14 Feb 2011)

Today at office as I was working, I started to think wat i was doing last year, last year at this same time and day i was in mettupalayam to attend one of colleague's marriage, i was job less at that time.. and this was my first journey all alone to an unknown place, i have never traveled alone or stayed alone.. having just 500 rs in my wallet i started my journey, i was given a room in  a lodge that night, early morning was the marriage, i had to get up at 4am in the morning(that was actually hard).. someone one dropped me at the temple... it was a hindu marriage... i am going for a Hindu marriage for the first time....feel was different, i was actually uncomfortable standing there not knowing wat to do... marriage ceremony got over, morning breakfast was provided, i got little time to speak with the couple, i have to write  about the couple's it was a love marriage.. they fell in love at first sight, and the guy decided to marry the gal only wen he is owns a company , now he is a CEO of a software company. That day actually i was jealous of them. they actually made a perfect pair... i left from there getting back to my home.... whole two days i dint book in any bus or train... i have to board in some bus coming in the way. as i was leaving from the place i went to a church on the way prayed for few mins and started my journey. from mettupalayam i took a bus to coimbatore, from there i could find no buses to my home( chennai), only way to go is to take a bus to salem and from salem to chennai. if i had got a bus from coimbatore to chennai i would have reached home by 7 in the evening .... since there was no bus, i had to travel 4 hrs to salem and  from salem to chennai it was 7hrs, actually i was irritated on my dad... bcoz i wanted to book a train from coimbatore to chennai but my dad dint allow me to book as it was expensive... but later i realised it was good... dint have my lunch... took bus to salem, i felt so low, i felt that i was left all alone, i was thinking about my old  bad memories, i felt am useless,unworthy to live,unloved,rejected,frustrated, i started crying in the bus..that moment as i was crying i started to speak with my JESUS. i cried to him, Jeje why i feel so low, why i dont have anyone to love me, i was weeping in the bus hopefully no one saw me crying. why am not worth to get a job.. its been 4 months not even a interview call. reached salem, got a local bus had to fight with ppl to get a seat... again a 7 hrs journey to my place... as i was travelling i am getting call from HP , u know wat guys it was a interview , thats when i realized that jesus was near hearing my cry... i took the interview in the crowded bus.. i successfully cleared the first round.after that the whole journey was not bitter experience but a joyful experience with my Jesus... That day i found out my true valentine. ITS MY JESUS, HE LOVES AS I AM. reached home at 12 am midnight, in next two days i got selected in fidelity investment with the best pay i ever thought... it was the first and best valentine day i celebrated, i am expecting every day should be valentine day with my dada JESUS. JESUS LOVES U ALL.

Are you prepared for your Death ?

Hey guys I wanted to write something which we all will face one day, I had a few reflection on it few days back, its about DEATH, 4 days ago one of  my Grandfather(my mom’s uncle) died of an asthma attack, I went back home to Chennai on Saturday for the funeral, I was sitting near the coffin box or the ice box and was praying for him something made me keep silent for sometime, I imagined myself inside the coffin box, people coming crying, screaming around me and am on my way back to my father’s house(Heaven) am sure about it he he he :-P . but my thought on my way back to heaven is … Dom have you really served the purpose that God sent you in this world, have I really fulfill his divine will, so will I be reaching Jesus as prodigal son, a loser, a failure, do I really have to reach him in that state, the whole day I was just thinking the same thing, time for funeral mass came, at church during sermon father was talking about the Same. He explained death in a simple way, we are like ball, if someone throws a ball towards a wall it will bounce back to the person, similarly God has sent us to Earth and finally we have to die and get back to him that’s the reflex, in the moment of journey in this world, that’s were are here to prove ourselves.  Are we here to build multi storey buildings or kingdom of God?

Prison ministry: A day of refelection between the bars and high walls.

Praise the lord. Once of my wish to go to Prison got fulfilled today, not as an accused but  to meet our brothers over there chained down and shattered. I have been asking Igi and Antony uncle to take me to prison as they are going for ministry there every week. Today being a lucky day Igi got caught up with some work , i think to pick up the resource  person for the school, and as they were looking for a good keyboardist ... bingo my divine face flashed in their mind's, Antony uncle called me up, would you be able to make it for the prison ministry. Wow.. I said I am ready. I was so excited. As we entered, i saw lot of police with gun's old Indian rifles not sure when they are gonna change, British left those guns still we use it.. he he he.. Coming to the serious part. We were scanned before we to entered in the main area of the prison, we had a physiotherapy center inaugurated by the bishop of Bangalore. then we had mass celebrated for the brothers. you wont believe me, there was a separate chapel  for prayer, chapel in prison i was little shocked. as we were heading the chapel i could hear ppl singing and clapping, they were praising Jesus name shouting his name and enjoying his presence.. I was really shocked. Want an energy and thirst they had for Christ! Wow... one brother asked uncle Antony why igi hasn't come today, Antony uncle told, he got some important work. That brother with an smiling face told bro if you go out it’s so hard to find an culprit, but here you find the whole crowd of culprits. if not here were do u find the best place share Christ.. wow man it was simple question but it made me to think how much he wanted to know about Christ, accepting his mistakes... this whole day i was reflecting a lot of things... looking at lot of sad faces and happy faces too... . I was actually looking all around, Huge walls, no way to go out. I was thinking do i have anything which is really huge as a wall between me and Jesus, or am I handcuffed that I cant embrace his love, do I make an effort to change my life... so that I can be free from my sins... or am I just trying to be a Christian.. But inside am chained by sins. It really made me think allot. I would really thank god for this opportunity to reflect about myself. but I will say brothers in prison are better than us, they want to know more about Christ, we know him, but we hesitate speak about his love. Holy spirit lead me and uncle in a awesome way. I played keyboard first time for kannada(regional language of bangalore) songs. Let Us help our brothers and sister not being in physical prison, but struggling mentally , chained down by gulity feelings, let us hold them with love of Christ, tell them that Jesus love them. i would love share a video with you, lyrics are so apt check it...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeuM0K2yNWU&feature=fvst

Holy Water...... To Purify and ..........

Hi Guys i sharing a extract from a book(Signs of Life) by Scott Hann, He wonderfully explains what is purpose of Holy water. which i dint know all these years,may be this gives you some insight.














Holy Water


We begin in water.


That’s how the book of Genesis poetically depicts the creation of the universe:


“darkness was upon the face of the deep; and the Spirit of God was moving over the face of the waters . . . And God said, ‘Let there be a firmament in the midst of the waters, and let it separate the waters from the waters’ ” (Gen 1:2, 6).


As it was in the cosmic, so it is in our personal beginnings: we assume our human form in the amniotic sac, “bag of waters,” in the womb. In the order of nature, birth begins when a mother’s “water breaks.”


So with water we begin our visits to church. We dip a hand into a holy-water font, and we bless ourselves.


There has been a watermark on Christian prayer since the earliest days of the Church. At the end of the second century, a North African theologian named Tertullian mentions the custom of symbolically cleansing one’s hands before lifting them in prayer. It was a Jewish custom that predated the coming of Our Lord, and it may be what St. Paul was referring to when he wrote to Timothy: “I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands” or “pure hands” (1 Tim 2:8). The historian Eusebius, writing around a.d. 320, describes a church in Tyre that had flowing fountains at its entrance, where the faithful might purify their hands.


We use water to mark our beginnings because God does. We find ample evidence of this in both nature and Scripture. When the world was lost to sin and needed cleansing and rebirth, God sent a great flood, and from that flood the family of Noah found newlife. When Israel emerged from slavery as a unified nation, it first had to pass through the waters of the Red Sea. When the chosen people established their places of worship—first the tabernacle and then the Temple—they constructed them with bronze basins for washing upon entry.


St. Thomas Aquinas taught that water has been a natural sacrament since the dawn of creation. In the age of nature—from Adam through the patriarchs—water refreshed and cleansed humankind. In the age of Law—the time of Moses—water provided a spiritual rebirth for Israel as the nation began its journey to the promised land. With Jesus, however, came the age of grace; and from that time onward water received the divine power of the Word made flesh. Though babies had always been born through “water,” now grown men and women could be “born of water and the Holy Spirit” (Jn 3:5). The Church Fathers taught that Jesus, by descending into the waters of the River Jordan, had sanctified the waters of the world. He made them living and life-giving (see Jn 4:10–14). He made them a source of supernatural regeneration, refreshment, and cleansing.


While we are on earth, we know spiritual things by means of sensible signs. It is only in glory that we will see divine things as they are, without their sacramental veils. According to St. Thomas, water ultimately “signifies the grace of the Holy Spirit . . . For the Holy Spirit is the unfailing fountain from whom all gifts of grace flow.” The book of Revelation confirms this, as it presents the Spirit’s grace as a “river of the water of life, bright as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb” (Rev 22:1).


Through history and through the cosmos, God has spoken with a voice that is “like the sound of many waters” (Rev 1:15). All the many sacred meanings of water we take for our own and claim as our inheritance—whenever we bless ourselves with holy water.


“Beloved, we are God’s children now,” born of water and the Spirit. “And everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure” (1 Jn 3:2-3).


This simple action, which even the smallest children love to do, is a reminder and a renewal of our baptism. It is a refreshment, too, providing relief from the oppression of evil. St. Teresa of Avila wrote that “there is nothing the devils flee from more—without returning—than holy water.”


Holy water is ordinary water that has been blessed for devotional use by a priest. We bless ourselves with holy water at church. Most churches also provide a dispenser so that parishioners can draw water to take home with them. Some Catholic families keep a little holy-water font at the entryway to every bedroom. I keep a bottle of the stuff in my office at all times.


We need do no more with it than splash a few drops on ourselves. It is customary to pronounce a blessing in the name of the Holy Trinity, too, and trace the outline of a cross with our right hand.


That’s enough for now. We’ll save the rest for the next chapter.


Ponder in Your Heart



King and Lord of all things and maker of the world: you gave salvation freely to all created nature by the descent of your only-begotten Jesus Christ. You redeemed all that you created by the coming of your ineffable Word. See now from heaven, and look upon these waters, and fill them with the Holy Spirit. Let your ineffable Word come to be in them and tranform their energy and cause them to be generative, as being filled with your grace . . . As your only-begotten Word coming down upon the waters of the Jordan rendered them holy, so now may he descend on these and make them holy and spiritual.


—Blessing of Water, from the sacramentary of
St. Serapion of Egypt, fourth century

LET JESUS LOVE YOU.

Last saturday we had good time praising and thanking Jesus. During the praise and worship, the worship leader was asking one thing which really made me to think alot... the whole night this was same thing i was pondering about. it was when we are in a relationship with a boy or a gal, we go all around enjoy together, going back home,we start our conversation through mobile or chat... its bcoz we cant afford to miss that lovable person,we always want to speak with them, we speak for hours but still we dont get bored. but the truth we behind love which is temporary. but have we ever thought about Jesus who loves us more than anything in this world. He is always waiting for us. but we are looking for a worldly relationship, i felt so bad when i think that Jesus is always waiting for me but how did i give reverence to him, did i atleast speak with him for a min. Jesus will be missing me every min did i realize that... omg... i have deceived Jesus by ignoring his unconditional love... LOVE JEUS and LET JESUS LOVE YOU

In Search Of Identity

IN SEARCH OF IDENTITY, it bcoz this is were we lag, we dont search our identity in a sense we don look for our own identity, its very important to find one's identity, and in christian life it plays a major role, today i went for my confession, there this priest shared this to me, we have four kinds of identity, "1. Identity by what i have, 2. Identity by what i do,3. Identity by what others say about me, finally 4.Identity by what i think about myself. where do we stand....??? I think everyone should go through the process of identifying His/Her Identity.

My first blog

Hi ppl,

Peace of Christ to you all. Writing blogs is new for me but i thought through blogs i can share my experience how i felt the love of JESUS CHRIST in my life.Even this idea about writing a blog was given by my sister.so i thought let me start to share my everyday experience with Jesus.In this blog i am gonna share my everyday experience which touched me and made me to think about the awesomeness of JESUS. See u all with update soon.